๐Ÿ’ป โ™ฅ Sometimes, I feel really discouraged…without the support I usually have back home

Dear Kim,

How are you? I am really happy to read the content of your blog. It inspired me so much to fulfill my goals and dreams here in Canada.

Sometimes, I feel really discouraged. Life here in Canada is very different from the Philippines which I came from.  It is very lonely here, especially now that itโ€™s winter. Itโ€™s only my fourth month here, but I still donโ€™t have any friends. My relatives here are not the same as my relatives back home. Preparing for the exam is very challenging for me here without the support I usually have back home.

Thank you so much kim.

Sincerely, V


Bridging Cultures, Building Connections: Your Journey in Canada

Dear V,

Your heartfelt message has truly touched me, vividly illustrating the power of connection and support in our community. As I reflect on the growth of the blog, from its inception several years ago to now reaching readers from around the word, daily, it’s heartening to see how many lives we are touching. This platform has become a beacon for those seeking guidance, especially for Internationally Educated Health Professionals like you, navigating the complexities of adapting to life in Canada.

This screenshot of the statistics for this blog in 2018 astounded me! Over a quarter of a million people!

The Challenges of Cultural Transition: Embracing New Norms

Adapting to life in Canada, particularly for those from cultures influenced by Spanish warmth and closeness, can be a bittersweet journey. In nations where touch and proximity are central to communication, the transition to Canadian norms โ€“ where personal space and a certain reserve are more common โ€“ can feel stark and isolating. The colder climates here can sometimes mirror the interpersonal distance felt by newcomers. Your experiences echo a common narrative of loneliness and the struggle to find a sense of belonging in a new land.

The path through this loneliness, as you’ve discovered, is in reaching out and connecting with others who share your interests and passions. Engaging in adult education classes and community activities not only offers a chance to learn but also to meet like-minded individuals. It’s in these spaces that the seeds of lasting friendships are sown, helping to alleviate the sense of isolation.

Empathy as Strength: The Nurse’s Journey

As a nurse, your personal experiences with loneliness and adaptation are not just challenges overcome but also invaluable tools.

Your experiences equip you with a profound empathy for patients who might be grappling with similar feelings of isolation or depression.

Your journey enriches your professional capabilities, enabling you to offer a level of understanding and compassion that goes beyond medical treatment.

I invite you to reflect on your own ‘plan of happiness.’ How do you cultivate joy and contentment in this new chapter of your life? Your insights could be immensely valuable to others in our community who are walking a similar path.

Thank you again, V, for your openness and for finding solace and inspiration in my blog. I hope this email further reinforces that you are not alone in your journey. Your experiences, challenges, and triumphs are shared by many, and together, we can navigate this journey with resilience and hope. Please continue to stay in touch and share your journey with us.

With warm regards and in solidarity,

Kim


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    Verlyn Chua

    Dear Kim,

    Thank you so much for your replies. I really feel encouraged with all yourย advises. Thank you so much for finding time in reading and replying to my messages. I really appreciate your feedback. ย You really motivated me to do my best in pursuing my career as a nurse. I’ve been very busy lately because of work and other important matters here at home. ย I think I will be taking my exam this coming February. ย I will do my best to prepare for that exam. Thank you so much for your help.ย 

    I also read your blog regarding plan of happiness and I think it will be helpful to me as well. Thank you!ย 

    Sincerely,ย 

    Verlyn

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    1. Kim Avatar

      Dear Verlyn,
      I am so grateful that you took the time from your busy schedule to both read and comment!

      Discovering that there are others in a similar situation is often a relief as we do not feel so alone. Finding sources of support and inspiration help us to stay afloat when we can not do it by ourselves. I am glad you have rededicated yourself to your dreams, and hope that you are able to create a secure foundation of support for yourself, not only for this exam but others to come thereafter!

      As for the plan of happiness, as an update I went to my dance group last night. It was -15C and I had every reason not to go. But I pushed myself to go. At the end of the day I was so happy I did. I went to sleep with a smile in my heart. Creating your own plan of happiness, doing the things that bring a smile to your heart, will help you to deal with the stress of your other responsibilities so that you can do them with a genuine smile.

      Be Well, Verlyn!
      Sincerely,
      Kim


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